This is how people should say it, but all to often they ask,
“Do you want to go to the gym”?
When the response comes back “No” or not right now, people often just sit around and end up not going. This is what happens if you lack self motivation. Instead of asking your friend first, just say
“I’m going to the gym, you want to go” or better yet “I’m going to the gym, see you later”.
Take initiative, be self motivated and you will be able to motivate others, and those you cannot motivate will be left in your review mirror fading fast, wishing they would have followed your lead.
Lead by example, because when you do this, your words become more powerful. If all you do is talk, people will stop listening because they are not seeing the effort that you want them to give.
Just take charge, work hard, and go to the gym, go to the cage, start shooting extra jumpers, all of these will make you better, and hopefully your teammates are motivated enough to follow your lead.
